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Showing posts with label sexual harassment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexual harassment. Show all posts

Friday, March 5, 2010

Opposite Gender Sexual Harassment Victim Experience (For Men)


Normally women will face this problem.
For men, we seldom hear complaints.
Is this because of no issue or they actually like being sexually harassed.
Have you ever been harassed sexualy?
If you do, please share by commenting. (ada beran?)
As told by Wikipedia harassment can only be considered a crime if there is no concensus regarding sexual advances (moves) by both parties.

What if, at first I agreed on those sexual moves but later think otherwise?
Sexual harassment is too broad issue, sometimes too subjective.
Once I went to a training with lawyer, he said if a man eat a banana in a way that showing a sex-like act, it is consider sexual harassment.
Aiyahh!! annekuan na..see liau!!
You tell me how to eat a banana without some sort of sexual act visualisation.
The answer is, you need to cut your banana in pieces before you actually eat them!
Haa..there you go, from now onwards men, you guys need to practice this.

How women eat banana?
Now the question is what about women side?
They are eating banana same like us men did maa.
How come we never complain?
Furthermore it's visualises our "things" kan?
Men, please comment.

Once when I was younger, I have been sexually harrased.
It happened in a factory where I worked.
I worked in a all ladies production line at that time.
There were no men around except me and myself alone.
Jeng jeng jeng!!

Suddenly the power went off.
No Electricity, black out.
Then, I felt a soft hands grabbing me from my back.
(You know la what she grabbed, no need explain in detail)
I was shocked and paralyzed for few minutes.
When the electrical power resume, I saw around 20 girls there.
I don't know which one harassed me. (I would like to know)
I also didn't ask.
How to ask?
Report?
Do you think HR manager will belief me?

Guys it's your turn to tell your side of story.